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Most Brands Are Using AI for Marketing Completely Wrong. Here's What I Do Instead.

Two years of watching brands copy-paste their way to generic content at scale has taught me something: AI does not fix bad thinking. It multiplies it.

by Fefe Idlewilde

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Founder

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Idlewilde Marketing Studio

May 2026|8 min read
Most Brands Are Using AI for Marketing Completely Wrong. Here's What I Do Instead.

I want to say something that is going to make a lot of marketing professionals uncomfortable. Most brands using AI for their content right now are producing worse marketing than they were before. Not different marketing. Not cheaper marketing. Worse marketing, at higher volume, delivered faster to inboxes and feeds where the competition for attention is already brutal.

I have been working with AI tools in my client work for two years. I have watched the category evolve from novelty to infrastructure. And the pattern I see most consistently is this: brands that treat AI as a shortcut to output are getting exactly what shortcuts produce.

The Copy-Paste Problem

Here is how most brand owners are using these tools. They open a chat interface, type something like 'write me a welcome email for my luxury skincare brand,' read whatever comes back, change a word or two, and send it to their list. The result is prose that sounds like every other AI-assisted email in the inbox: smooth, pleasant, structurally competent, and completely devoid of the specific texture that makes one brand feel different from another.

I have audited Klaviyo accounts for brands spending thousands of dollars a month on email infrastructure and filling it with copy that nobody on earth would describe as distinctly theirs. The flows are perfectly built. The segmentation is tight. The soul is entirely missing. And the subscribers, who are sophisticated enough to have signed up for a premium brand's list in the first place, can feel the absence.

What AI Cannot Do

AI cannot know that your best customer lies awake thinking about whether the piece she is considering is the kind of thing her mother would have loved. It cannot know that across three hundred of your reviews, buyers use a specific phrase to describe the moment they first opened the packaging, and that phrase, if you build your voice around it, makes your emails feel like they came from someone who was watching.

AI cannot do the research. It processes what you give it. Which means the brands using it well are the ones who do the research first, build the portrait of the buyer, document the voice, understand the emotional architecture of the purchase, and then use AI to move faster on execution. The ones using it badly are the ones who skipped all of that and went straight to the output.

My Actual Process

Before I write a word of copy for a client, I spend two to three weeks doing nothing but research. I read every review on their site and on their three closest competitors. I pull out language that repeats. I look for the specific phrases customers use when they are moved enough to describe what the product changed about their life. I build a psychographic portrait so detailed that when I sit down to write, I am not describing a product. I am describing the person who bought it and what their world looks like afterward.

Then, sometimes, I use AI to stress-test a framing, explore an angle I have not considered, or push through a first-draft block. The research, the voice, the emotional architecture of the piece: those are mine. AI is a surface I occasionally work against, not a foundation I build on.

The Gap That Is Opening

AI is going to make bad marketers more productive. It is also going to make the gap between resonant marketing and mediocre marketing more visible, because the baseline has risen. When anyone can generate competent copy in thirty seconds, competent is no longer the bar. What your brand needs is copy that is so specifically, unmistakably yours that a reader could identify it without your name on it.

That kind of copy does not come from a prompt. It comes from understanding the customer at a level deep enough that the writing becomes inevitable. AI will not get you there. But it can help you move faster once you know exactly where you are going.

The brands winning with AI are not the ones using it as a shortcut. They are the ones using it as an accelerant on a fire they already built.